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♥ Ideal.
How do you define ideal?
You have this whole list of criteria for your ideal. You search high and low for your ideal. You get disappointed because no one seems to fit into this list of your ideal.
Until one day, you find someone who is so similar. So so similar. And then you start to know him a little better. But you soon realise that no, there are still areas that he is different. Then, you try to convince yourself to overlook these little nitty-gritty areas. Then, you realise actually these differences are so mild and insignificant and your ideal is still so ideal. And then, you think, maybe, maybe you do like him, that's why you can overlook everything.
But if you were to step back and think, do you really? Or because he is so close so close to your ideal, and you get confused with ideal and reality.
Actually, is ideal what we are looking for?
